For me, self love means looking at my life and deciding that I want more.
It means looking at my life, really looking at my life, and figuring out what patterns and beliefs I had that held me back from creating my dream life, that future version of me who is Vybrant & unstoppable. It’s the uncomfortable questions… It’s the uncomfortable answers… working out and working through all of the beliefs I had about why I didn’t feel like I was worthy or deserving of more.
It’s the uncomfortable realisation that not everyone is who they say they are and sometimes to put myself first I had to lose people. It’s the uncomfortable realisation that I, myself had been repeating patterns and behaviours that don’t support the person I wanted to be, that in not setting boundaries or speaking my truth, I allowed people to take advantage. It’s doing the things I know are good for me even on the days I don’t want to. It’s my vulnerability, allowing and honouring all of my emotions even the ones we’ve been tricked into believing are ‘bad ones’. It’s having difficult conversations, setting boundaries, saying no and letting people down sometimes. It’s having FUN without guilt, listening to my heart and asking what do I want instead of what do I think I should be doing. It’s surrounding myself with beautiful people who light me up and call me out. It’s the desire to keep learning, being open minded to new ways of thinking and being that will serve me best and help me grow. It’s the discipline of doing the things I say I’m going to do and honouring myself. It’s knowing when to rest and when to power through.
And I know this probably sounds so overwhelming, it’s a lot to start bringing into your life. It’s taken me 4 years to get to where I am, it takes time and bloody commitment to yourself. So that’s what I mean when I say its not an easy road. But it’s so f*cking worth it and that’s why I’m committing to sharing this with you.
So if you want to start learning real self love… Come work with me xxx